That relationship!

Posted byMoushmi RadhanparaPosted inFor the eternal love., My Reality MirrorTags:, , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

These days we have various relationships, you have someone specifically for going shopping, someone special with whom you go buying books, someone with whom you go on dinners, and someone with whom you can talk on and on…

I don’t know much about emailing friends and writing letters having done it scarcely but all I can say about this is I feel immensely exultant when I have someone whom I can talk to in writing. I cannot say for others but I have some friends with whom I might not have met often, with whom I never shopped, neither went on dinners but when we ‘talk’ it is absolutely different, it is almost like no one else can understand you.

These very few and precious friends of mine obviously do get sometimes frustrated with my callous ignorance but they are always there. We might not even call each other; just texting would suffice where we would pour our hearts out. (It is almost like ‘You’ve got mail!)

You know, texting may sound weird, but when someone truly loves you they don’t just say ‘k’ or ‘cool’ they just ramble on and honestly I love these people who know I won’t be able to express myself unless in writing and who would take out their time and literally ‘type’ out long messages for you.  It is like they care for you and not for the fact that they you don’t have much time to go out with them since you are long apart.

It is totally different from other relationships, without any expectations apart from the fact that they’d listen to you and it is purely precious. Otherwise where do you get such people these days, who’d listen to you and your unending pathetic feelings instead of going out in a club and shutting out your voices beneath the loud music?

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Published by Moushmi Radhanpara

A bilingual writer, Moushmi Radhanpara has authored three poetry collections so far, namely POSIES and 03:21 AM –An Ode to Rust & Restlessness, and Resignation of an Angel. She is also scribbling an unplanned rough draft of a story as a part of NANOWRIMO 2020 and hopes that something might come out of it. She has also co-authored two books, The Lockdown Stories and Mirage so far. Her poetries can be found on her blog https://aestheticmiradh.com/ and a few other online portals. She believes in the fact that a better reader makes a better writer. Reading a 100 books a year is her latest obsession. She can be found either drunk on coffee or hiding away from everything and admiring the gorgeous sun.

30 thoughts on “That relationship!”

  1. I’m always here to listen. ❤
    And, I'm one of those who writes a lot without any reflections or at least acknowledgements. Sad. But, happy that I'm there for somebody. 🙂

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  2. I like texting over calling because I feel one can always express oneself better through writing and words. Specifically, long paragraphs from friends indicate that they actually do care about us rather than short abbreviations.

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      1. Ah, but I’ve read your stuff, you have such a beautiful and unique way of writing. ‘Writer’ is a scary hat to wear, but when it totally owns you, I don’t think you have a choice.

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  4. We only define it as a busy world . but there are people who can listen us, there are people with whom we can express anything, sometimes they come unexpectedly, without any shout outs.. Just they enter unknowingly in our world and stay there forever…

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  11. Quite an amazing post it is! Liked the way you pourin’ the genuine thoughts of everyone’s life herein so captivating words.

    Yes, indeed it’s true, people esp. the youth are much into this so-called “texting” thing, but… half of ’em hardly know the worth of one’s existence which already further led ’em to emptiness, within. Clubbing is good only if it’s enjoyed together with priorities not with loosen up your feet to slum. lol

    A very beautiful post you’ve come up with. Had a great time with it, as always.

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