Questions, Questions!

  • When exactly is someone ready?
  • Is head over heels really a thing?
  • Just how many before the one?
  • How do you know it’s him?
  • What if you think you are done with all the hassle but one last try could give you what you wanted all along?
  • what if you try, and fail all over again?
  • can we not learn after the first heart break?
  • how do even sometimes explain what you think, what you have in mind?
  • how do even words justify to your feelings?
  • Just how?

You might not have the answer to them, but Just have a good laugh over my continuous unending ramblings.

Have a good day. πŸ™‚


Published by Moushmi Radhanpara

A bilingual writer, Moushmi Radhanpara has authored three poetry collections so far, namely POSIES and 03:21 AM –An Ode to Rust & Restlessness, and Resignation of an Angel. She is also scribbling an unplanned rough draft of a story as a part of NANOWRIMO 2020 and hopes that something might come out of it. She has also co-authored two books, The Lockdown Stories and Mirage so far. Her poetries can be found on her blog and a few other online portals. She believes in the fact that a better reader makes a better writer. Reading a 100 books a year is her latest obsession. She can be found either drunk on coffee or hiding away from everything and admiring the gorgeous sun.

71 thoughts on “Questions, Questions!

  1. A few years, before I met and happily married Sadako, I THOUGHT I had met THE ONE. She was smart, good-looking, sexy…all the above. We clicked in every sense of the word. I had finally found what I was looking for…and then it all went down hill…fast. She was a monster. The relationship became unendurable. I could spend the next hour with details, but why?

    Oh, I was definitely “ready” I was “head over heels” I had gone through “previous heart break” I knew it was HER! It was a disaster.

    There’s no guarantees when it comes to affairs of the heart. It’s a crap shoot. I met Sadako and found true love, but one doesn’t know until…and then it may be a nightmare…it may be a lovely dream. The only advice I can give is to not rush into anything.

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  2. DISCLAIMER: I was in the mood to write something funny and probably a bit sarcastic. You’ve been warned. πŸ˜‚
    1. Someone’s really ready probably when they think “Oh hell, I might as well do it anyway”.
    2. This applies probably when you’ve crashed to the floor all thanks to your high heels.
    3. Zero and negative numbers, maybe?
    4. By his haircut probably. If he has long hair and no moustache, you’ll probably make the mistake of calling him a her.
    5. I’ll answer this truthfully. You should probably give it a chance. Go with your gut feeling.
    6. There’s only so many times failure can be with you. You’re bound to succeed…one day, sometime in the future.
    7. Sadly human mind cannot be debugged like computer programs. So we might make mistakes.
    8. The first step is to start talking.
    9. Sometimes they do. Sometimes they don’t. Words are that way. Blame it on feelings for being so complicated.

    I hope you aren’t offended. In my defense, I did add a disclaimer and add maybe to most of the answers. I hope you had a good laugh though πŸ™‚

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  3. 1.when you had a feeling that you are ready,a genuine will know it.
    2. Yes,if you are addicted to someone more than alcohol and drugs
    3.As many as possible,we have to dig tonnes of mud to gets gram of gold.
    4.noo,I don’t think so’s not your mistake,if you fail.
    6.yes..a lot can be learnt
    7.sometimes it’s difficult
    8.words always can’t justify feelings
    9.Until you find the one…”How” Will be continued

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    1. I sure had a laugh reading this.
      I mean as a good laugh. Your words define a perfect hopeless romantic.
      You are right in saying that words can never define one’s ffeelings, we as humans just try in vain. Our heart and words don’t have a link at all.
      PS: What’s more to contiinue? I seriously wanna know!


      1. Hopeless romantic?? I thought that I am hopefully romantic.And what do you really want to know?seriously wanna know! Then seriously ask me questions..serious I may answerπŸ˜ŠπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜†

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  4. No addiction on my part. It was a slow process. I hated his guts πŸ˜‚ I knew he was a caring good person kind of like my dad so we got married. Only thing we shared was our love for food and we shared the same profession. After 27 years we still fight. Not sure if my decision was a good one . Opposites attracts . Marriage is hard work . You just have to work at it.

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    1. You are absolutely correct.
      There are two people required in working at it, and if one fails, our relationship fails.
      But if it works its just wonderful!
      Thanks aa lot for sharing your opinion here.
      Hope you have a lovely day ahead. πŸ™‚

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  5. Hi,
    It sounds like you write about love. You must have a popular site since everyone is interested in being loved.

    Maybe you can check out my blog if you need any Blogging Tips. That’s what I write about.

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  6. kinda very intriguing post you’ve come up with this time. it’s not yours, but the problem of lovers have u well captured in words, eventually. nice imagery here.

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