“We shall…”
or
“Shall we..?”
What would you prefer?
As of me, I think I’d prefer the second scenario any day. Anyone asking me anything would be way better and sophisticated than someone just throwing commands at me. I now I’d agree with the person anyway, if he or she is that important to me, and yet I’d like to be asked first, no matter what!
Just think of it and you might feel it too. Or may be I care too much and listen more than needed to the said words. (It could be possible with me having a lot of time to spare now, I might be actually giving too much importance to these words spoken.)
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A bilingual writer, Moushmi Radhanpara has authored three poetry collections so far, namely POSIES and 03:21 AM –An Ode to Rust & Restlessness, and Resignation of an Angel. She is also scribbling an unplanned rough draft of a story as a part of NANOWRIMO 2020 and hopes that something might come out of it. She has also co-authored two books, The Lockdown Stories and Mirage so far. Her poetries can be found on her blog https://aestheticmiradh.com/ and a few other online portals. She believes in the fact that a better reader makes a better writer. Reading a 100 books a year is her latest obsession. She can be found either drunk on coffee or hiding away from everything and admiring the gorgeous sun.
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I agree with you. I would also like someone asking me rather than just giving commands to me.
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Thank you dear.
I know, right! You might even still agree to the person, and yet a request would be far better. IT’s a game of words for us I guess.
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Words hold great power. We may not feel it, but yet they have power to handle situations.
As you said, it’s a game of words. 👌
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Glad to know you are on the same page 🙂
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Shall we chat in whatsapp??? With any girl, Answer : No….. we shall chat in whatsapp..Answer :no ..but also prefer second one because. It’s better to get rejection with decency
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That’s your perspective may be.
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Ok…it was like kidding. Don’t take it seriously..jharkhand pataka
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Why do you have to come up with names?
I think Moushmi is fine enough.
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Like I said,it’s boring
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Be careful, you are trying to call me boring!? 😀
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I will call you again..moushmi…boooooooooooringpara
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Carry on!!!
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Crying now???😂😂😂😂
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There is no way you can make me cry!
I am not the cry type!
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Ohh..that is good ……I can make you cry by making you happy toooooo..happy tears
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Hahahaha
Now that happy tears can happen, it is rare though!
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Yeah..only when you feel so special and when you can’t take that much happiness,the tear tank inside you will burst…
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Tear tank ?? 😀
Hahaha there is no such thing!
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Who said..???.there will be tanks,taps everything inside body..when you are sad taps will open,,
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You can stop using such imageries, it’s like you are not talking of a person’s body but of a sink!
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Sink?????? That too exists!!!!
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Oh God!!!
Kuch bhi……..
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Are you Calling me god😂
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Don’t give yourself that much of importance!
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Are you asking me to give you that importance..??😆
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Definitely no!
Why don’t you stop assuming things 🙂
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Because if I stop..fun sieze
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Oh, really?
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Nope..fiction
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😀
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It’s the very human nature of disliking domination…and yes, I go with you
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Thanks dear. And I guess it is in our nature, but what else can we do instead of disliking it.
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No..no don’t do anything else…just dislike…😉
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😀
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“Shall we” for sure as “We shall” is a definitive statement that I would only use if the arrangements were previously expressed and agreed to or if you are telling someone else of your plans only!!!
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Exactly, why just throw statements and commands otherwise, if not pre-planned.
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Yes I don’t wish to be commanded either!
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Actually You’re correct. The whole meaning can change if we just rephrase the sentence!
And that’s why I feel that words are sooo powerful!!
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That’s the importance of language, isn’t it?
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Should we…? 😉
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That works too 😀
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Agree
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Thanks dear.
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For me Shall we…. Because my nature reflects this… I am a bit timid and submissive so I prefer others overpowering me…
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Thanks. ‘Shall we?” is better according to me too.
But why would you want people to overpwer you?
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Maybe due to my submissive nature and lack of confidence
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That does not sound good.
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I am working on it!!
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I think you should.
It’s going to help you only in the end.
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Yup, thanks for reminding 🙂
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🙂
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Aint it rather interesting, how little things create so much difference………
As for me, I’d definitely choose the latter one………
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I know, right? Asking is much better, isn’t it?
And yes, it is really noticeable who small things change a whole lot of meaning, even petty words, punctuation’s or even just a tone of a person makes a lot of difference, that’s the power of language!
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Exactly!!we dont have to depend on words thoroughly, little hints, tone, as you said speaks so much……
Only if those guests of yours had understood them……. 😛
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Hahahaha
You compared it well, but I did not write it in that reference. But yes if they had understood it our last month could have been a lot easier 😀
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Agree with you, Moushmi. A question can become a command or an opinion and I prefer the latter.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
It is strange how some small words can literally change the meaning of the sentence.
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True that
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I prefer the second too 🙂 Words matter to me a lot!
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Thanks dear.
I know, sometimes the smallest of words and their tones can change a lot in the person’s say.
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You are welcome. Yes, totally agree!
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Simple yet powerful post, one must always chose words carefully 🙂
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Language is powerful, isn’t it?
Thanks dear for your thoughts.
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Thought provoking 😊
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I am glad you think this way.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Much love dear.
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My pleasure 😊💚
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