People just drift away, don’t they?
I took refuge in the world of writing and blogging, thinking that everything will be different here. And yes, it was! I have loved here always.
But just like the real world, I have lost some of the virtual friends too. When I started blogging, I did not know anyone here, and there were few people who would be always here for me, would read my posts, let me know how they feel about it. I loved reading their blogs too. But where are they?
They seem to have just vanished. I keep visiting their blogs- no recent posts! I fill up a comment on the “Contact us” page, but there is no reply. I guess they have just stopped blogging.
Then there are people who just vanish away, because of the wordpress glitches, I though they had gone away too, until of course I open my spam folder only to know they have been always there. Seriously, what is up with this spam thing?
So before I find anyone else missing from this virtual world, I’d just want to say thank you for always listening to my ramblings. You do mean a lot to me whether I say it or not!
And also please keep checking your spam folders! (Just in case!)
I know it’s weird, I didn’t even know I had a WordPress spam folder until someone asked me to check mine! Then I saw lots! At least now I know to look there😂
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Hahaha
I know, it’s just good to check it once every now and then.
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We are always there for each other… this is just another friend circle with similar madness.
Stay happy dear 🙂
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Yes, I know right. the safest place I think. 🙂
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How do I check the spam folder? I didn’t even know there was one!
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There is one under the settings page. You will find the pending, spam folder and other settings there.
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I also missed so many people here. I delete five times the blogs created new out of personal problems.i created new names. But I followed them back.. But I missed so many..I stopped writing for months too
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But you are back, so I think you didn’t loose interest.
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Yup
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I missed akhila..but I don’t know how to contact her..sometimes I feel that she is avoiding me..but I don’t know the reason..but I like her posts very much..I missed communicating with her
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Try and contact her then.
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Contact??? How????
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May be there is a contact her page on her site.
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I should try then..any plans today for you
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Nope, not as yet.
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Whenever you are free tell me..I have plans..I am thinking you to invite today
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Yeah, right!!
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But it’s actually in another galaxy.can you afford to come there..or should o send some aliens to pick you
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I think I am not in the mood to travel to your different galaxies.
I think, I will spend my Sunday, peacefully at home, reading!
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Hmmm..but already tell me when you sleep?? Oh my god you won’t sleep know…I thought of taking your soul while body is sleeping
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Someone also asked to check that.. but still I can’t find it.. help where it is.? I m using only mobile app..
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In mobile app you will find an option view site and another one is view admin at the bottom. Just click on view admin. There you would find the spam index
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Ohk.. thank you.. ☺
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You are absolutely right moushmi, I have also witnessed the same.
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I don’t know what is with this spam?
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You cannot lose people Moushmi, sometimes its just that people lose track over themselves. I may not have written any post since many days but I never miss out on any of your posts, literallyyyy! Just like the f.r.i.e.nd.s
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Ohhh !! I was typing but see I lost my conscious and hit the send button😂😂… But i was saying like all the seasons of f.r.i.e.n.d.s, I can never afford missing out on any of your posts..
I wish that people who are drifting apart get back to you and you stay happyyyyyyy😊😊😊😊
Abundant love
Sonal❤❤
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Thank you so much sonal for always being there.
I am happy, but I just think what made them stop blogging? Their reason, of course.
I am hoping to clink on to you for a longer time than this for sure. :-p
Much love to you.
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ditto to all you have said.
I have been “blogging” for many many years and I just don’t know where they go.
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I know, right? May be they get busy after all but you know what, since I started blogging, I hardly see the people around, whom I met during my initial days except of course for you.
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Awwww…thanks. you are sweet
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Thank you, and I am just being honest.
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Keep writing.
It was nice to connect with you.
And I love the fact that you put legit effort in visiting their profiles. I do the same.
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It’s sad when good writers lose interest.
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I know, may be they get too busy with life.
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Wow, so weird. It is sad when people stop posting, but I can see how a lifestyle change would maybe make blogging difficult. It takes a lot of time! They could maybe explain it, though, so it isn’t so sudden.
Kathrin — http://mycupofenglishtea.wordpress.com
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Hey Kathrin, thank you for stopping by my blog.
I know, it takes a lot of time, and a lifestyle change may effect it too. But then I was majorly talkign about those who have not been here for more than 6 months.
May be they really got busy, who am I to judge.
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I agree, check spam folder for your most interested followers
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I know, right? 🙂
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I apologize. I have been guilty of this too as of late. Life got overwhelmingly busy. Thank you for your awesome posts and kind words😄
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It was my pleasure.
Going off for a while is different, and vanishing in thin air is a different matter altogethr.
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That is true😛
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I will check out too!!
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Sure, someone might be lost there 😀
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Ohh yes thats very true yesterday itself your comment went to spam section but i keep on checking at the end of each day so no one feels left out.
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That’s great to know,
I do remember my comment not being published on your site.
Thanks dear for doing the necessary.
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Moushmi, thank you!
You know, i just started this whole blogging thing and got a lot of support, but for sometime now I’ve been feeling…lackadaisical about the whole thing. Like i want to post, read and leave my comments, but i feel too… You know…i can’t just express it. Maybe too lazy. But thank You for this post, it’s more like a wake up call to me.
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i understand the feeling, sometimes it’s just that there is nothing to post, sometimes there is not the right amount of time, and sometimes other important stuff comes up.
I am myself sometimes just away from it, I just do not like when I see that people have just vanished away, no more available, no more replies to the comments, no way of reaching them. It’ like the people in our real lives who just stop talking to us, go away from us!
I thought this, what we have here was different.
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What ever the reason, i believe we can always afford to…you know, overcome. Especially with support from everyone of us.
…i also believe that we have here is different…somehow.
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Yes, I agree, this is absolutely different from the friednships and relations we have outside of this virtual world.
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I’ve discovered so many comments in my spam folder! It’s really a wonder how Akisment detects even the comments of regular friends as spam 😦
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I know, right?
People who have been in contact for months now, are all of a sudden spam according to it!
Just wonder how that works!
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Really!
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Akismet**
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You are right about this 🙂 I have wondered about some virtual friends too.
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Thank you 🙂
It’s just sad we lose some of them.
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You are welcome. True.
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I’m going to check my spam folder right now!
~ Megan Joy
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Might help some honest reader.
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I didn’t know I had one. Thanks for the information here.
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Most welcome. you might have actually not been able to view so many honest reviews by readers up till now!
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I never check my spam folder!!!😨😨
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