Somehow, I do not agree with people who keep saying that you are strong, that you can do it, you must not break down, even when you see the person in a state where he sees nothing but darkness. Forgive me, but I just cannot bring myself to say that you have no right in breaking down.
I feel, that we all have the right to break apart sometimes, fall to the lowest of your levels, shatter into as many pieces as you want, for only when you are at your lowest, do you realise that there is nowhere else to go but, somewhere above it.
Breaking apart could be wrong, only and only when it becomes a habit. So,

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A bilingual writer, Moushmi Radhanpara has authored three poetry collections so far, namely POSIES and 03:21 AM –An Ode to Rust & Restlessness, and Resignation of an Angel. She is also scribbling an unplanned rough draft of a story as a part of NANOWRIMO 2020 and hopes that something might come out of it. She has also co-authored two books, The Lockdown Stories and Mirage so far. Her poetries can be found on her blog https://aestheticmiradh.com/ and a few other online portals. She believes in the fact that a better reader makes a better writer. Reading a 100 books a year is her latest obsession. She can be found either drunk on coffee or hiding away from everything and admiring the gorgeous sun.
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Break apart, cry, and then come back stronger – that is rejuvenation
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I agree Shalini.
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That’s so intense, I like the last quote 👍 it’s motivating
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Thanks a lot.
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Breaking down is necessary sometimes…. for our ownselves .
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I absolutely agree.
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A great write, indeed!! I like the idea of this ‘breaking apart’ or falling to one’s lowest levels. Since I personally came up from that ‘lowest’ level, I am not scared of losing positions or possessions!!
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Thank you so much for understanding.
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Absolutely. Holding up pent up emotions can do more damage. So letting them go will help one emerge stronger. Thanks for the quote. A beautiful one Moushumi 🙂
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Thank you so much Radhika.
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Oh breaking down can be therapeutic……it’s cathartic …… I second you 😊. I trained myself never to show my tears ……..and trust me till date I sometimes get hard on myself but showers are great places to shed your tears wash your face and move on🤗😝😜
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Hahaha. I see more resemblance in us now.
Well, showers are really helpful when it comes to hiding our feelings and venting out at once. But that is the irony I am talking about. We as people have become so senseless today that we cannot accept someone breaking down, either we diminish them or we don’t consider their feelings. which is why people like us find places like bathrooms and rainy days to cry out and relieve the tears. Ummm, I don’t know, am I making any sense?
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U totally are ……I get your point . Every one is ready to jump on to a judgement and my personal problem is pity …… empathising is fine but pls keep ur sympathy in your pockets ….now am I making sense🤔
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Absolutely!! We don’t want pity. We don’t even want them to understand our problems and our feelings. All we want is an effort to just be there and not be all judgemental.
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Ahaaa hi5 mate …..lol I am happy to have found someone alike😜
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Hahaha. You cannot know how much the feeling is mutual. 😀
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🤗😍💕
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Can I join😅
Cause I can totally relate
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Hahaha, you are most welcome Riman.
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True that…people only judge .. for them that’s the easiest thing to do for… I guess
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You can’t help these people.
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And actually who cares😅
It hurt sometimes but…ya..let them judge
Let them live in their OWN world ..right
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Exactly!!!!
Keep your sympathy in your pockets..
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Riman ….welcome to the clan 😜 . I agree with your points dear
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Thank you sakshi😄
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🤗💕
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I used to walk in the rain and cry! It’s sadly beautiful or beautifully sad. Could be either 🙂 And it’s always nice to embrace every emotion, ain’t it.
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It’s best to embrace everything that belongs to you ………I agree with you Parikhit 😊
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Often so many have told me that shun sorrow but like you and Moushmi write every emotion counts. It is rightfully ours.
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Totally and my recent experience says ….you should always allow a person to empty the vessel …… shunning never helps …let it flow
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Couldn’t agree more 🙂
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I agree with you. Every emotion counts, and we cannot simply run away form it.
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Oh yes, absolutely! Everyone needs to vent out once a while – it’s good for health!❤
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I agree with you. It’s only helpful to us.
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Good One!
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Thanks Abhay.
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Profound 💛
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Thank you 🙂
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Yeah it is true. Sometimes we should break
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Thanks dear.
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Thankyou Moushmi, this was much needed to read❤
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It was only my pleasure 🙂
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good one!!!
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Thanks Buddy.
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I agree with you absolutely! May I post a link to a short post that I had done as it relates to yours?
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Yes, absolutely. I’d love to read it.
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Thank you.
https://pragalbhadoshi.wordpress.com/2017/03/20/choose/
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I am heading there straight away.
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Yes, it is all for the sake of seeing brighter days ahead.
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I agree with you.
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