“Aandhere me jo bhi dikhe, us se darr hi lagta hai.”
My friend said this to me yesterday. The literal translation of which is, “Anything that you see in the dark, is most certainly going to scare you.”
And somehow I find that that this friend is always right and meeting him for this occasional coffee proves more than just a cup of coffee. This is not the first time he has struck a one liner and stumped me. He does this time and again, sometimes only trying to be funny, and the other times, trying to compose my edgy nerves. And almost every time he succeeds in his intentions.
After he said this to me, I kept mulling over it, and I could only decipher its truth even more, after every passing second.
Isn’t he right? I mean sometimes does not the smallest of things bother you only because there is something else crucial going around? Doesn’t sometimes some incidents leave a mark on you more than they should, only because they came after a chain of unwanted events, shaking you? Do you not sometimes, feel scared only because something else is scaring you? Do you not feel scared in the darkness only because there is something uncertain? Do you not feel scared because there is nothing to see in that darkness? Do you not be scared only because you might be scared of the darkness? Are you not scared of being scared itself?
PS: I don’t know how much I make sense today to any one of you..
I can feel you cus this has happened w me. After 4-5 straight bad days I got this very ‘reluctant’ person cus anything I do, makes me scared that what if ‘that’ thing happens again. Relatable post.
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Thanks Piyush.
But as of now I am not even talking about 4-5 continuous bad days, I am not even talking weeks. I am talking a series of bad months, or to say precisely, this year, in all.
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Moushmi, I hope you’re not going through it. I mean if yes, you’re a really brave person. Stay happy 🙂
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Well, I hate to admit it, but yes. Precisely this year hasn’t been any good to me so far.
But thanks for those encouraging words. I will try my best to keep sailing.
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That’s the spirit. Keep smiling dear!👍🏻🤗
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Everything makes sense
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Thanks Kalyan.
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Yup relatable …. sometimes the outbursts are because of stress being piled up……..and darkness within the heart makes the whole world look dark……..igniting a candle within helps in clearing the vision
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I will try to work with that candle then.
Thanks Sakshi,..
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My pleasure Always Moushmi 🤗❤️
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Very relatable! When the heart/mind is clouded with uncertainty, the world does become a scary place to be at!
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I agree, thank you for this thoughtful comment.
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So true and so relatable!
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Thank you 🙂
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It’s true most of the times. Nice post.
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Thanks Jaya.
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Relatable 👍 & it’s so true
Profound post👍😊
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Thank you so much.
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You make perfect sense to me 😀
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I am glad I do 😀
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😀
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i dont think meeting you in the dark would scare me. 😉
we play on our inherit fear of the night since 1. we dont see well at night and 2. all the things we have heard or read etc. about the night and how they stay rooted in our minds. yes, im much to practical and can rationalize it all, but it doesnt seem to always help when im in the darkness. lol
good write.
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Thanks Buddy. I agree with your rational explanations, but also, I agree with you when you say, it doesn’t quite help when you are in darkness yourself.
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Interesting write-up! 🙂
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Thank you 🙂
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Totally makes sense! What already exists within is the only thing that can get triggered by the external. Your friend’s statement is indeed interesting.
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Thank you so much Pragalbha. I do agree with you.
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You are very welcome.
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👌👌👌
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😀
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I am scared by the feeling to feel how scary something can be…Friends like them are one of the things✨
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Absolutely. friends like them are to be cherished for a lifetime.
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Darkness is a state of mind. If the soul is bright no darkness ca scare
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I agree with you 🙂
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Thank you so much dear
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Huh 8 questions!
9th question is for you: What about that light of hope?
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I can’t see it clearly as of now.
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Interesting read, Moushmi and it is all in the Mind. Of course one surely gets scared of dark but if there is no darkness how will there be light. It goes hand in hand, then why do we not get scared of light just because everything is light. Great post.
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I agree with you, it all goes hand in hand.
Thanks Kamal.
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your words dear Moushmi. Welcome always.
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“Aandhere me jo bhi dikhe, us se darr hi lagta hai,
Aaina apna kyun na ho, aks koi aur hi lagta hai”
Sorry couldn’t help! 😊
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Absolutely perfect line added..
Thanks.
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Food for thought!
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🙂
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