Person: Why are you still single?
Me: I am still finding my perfect match! (Because I don’t have anything else to say.)
Person: Seriously? There are like 6 billion people on this planet, and you don’t like anyone yet?
Me: I am still finding that special someone with whom I can actually connect. (Now desperately wanting out of this conversation)
Person: You know what I read recently that everyone of us has 1.5 million potentially perfect matches out there.
Me: (Staring. Not speaking. Thinking. Questioning myself. Thinking exactly what have I been doing?)
Person: Listening? 1.5 million!!!
Me: Uuuummmmm, but you know what I am pretty sure that among those 1.5 million people no one will come above books to me 😀 (What better way than a little bit of humor, to literally end this.)
Person: Rolls his eyes at me.
Me: (But really 1.5 million? And yet, somehow I manage to ruin my relationship with everyone.)
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PS: The above little information of the ratio of perfect matches; was shared by the Australian relationship experts Barbara and Allan Pease, at the Times Litfest in Delhi. (My source of information is the newspapers)
It is absolutely important to wait for the right one – or else – you wait for eternity, with pain and horrid to get them out of your life 😊😊 pun intended – and yes books are always a better choice – trust me enjoy your singlehood 😊😊
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Oh, don’t get me wrong. I AM enjoying my single hood and am in no such hurry! Only I need to give answers time and agin, who keep pestering me on the issue 🙂
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Good for you. Enjoy till it last 🌸🌸😊
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Sadly, it’ll be like ‘Waiting for Godot’!! Well-done!! 🙂
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Hahaha, exactly like Godot!!
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My pleasure!! 🙂
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Make most of your time my friend … companionship is important …but rushing into it is madness ……..take all the time in the world …be picky ..choosey and listen to your heart’s voice
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I will, Sakshi 😉
And you don’t have to tell me to be choosy, because if anyone knows that there are people who still suggest me to do so, then they will be appalled, at both of us 😉
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Haaaaaa haaaa I got it ……. taking it back 😜
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Hahaha
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nothing is perfect. way wait. if you are not being proactive…
if you are not practicing at being in a relationship, how can you be getting better at being in one?
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So you are suggesting practicing being in a relationship?
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People want to just be with that one person or think there is only one person for them. But how can you know what you want and who you want and how you want it if you don’t practice at something. How can you be good at something if you don’t practice it?
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Hahaaah… Moushmi, this was a fun post. I will enjoy reading about the ‘special one’ when he arrives. 😉 😉
xoxoxo
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Then write I will, whenever that happens 😀
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😊
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WOW.. 1.5 million! Guess, we are living on the wrong side of the world! LOL 😉 😛 (Just kidding!)
On a serious note, you’ll know when the “right one” comes along!❤
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Hahaha thanks Richa.
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I agree with you, I don’t have a spare moment for any of that nonsense. I like my life the way it is, haha. xxxxx I’ve read that you should just live your own life, do what you want to do (like reading) and you and your soul mate will find each other along the way.
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Well said, my friend!
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Hahaha 😀 Thank you 😉
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Hmmmm…..I don’t think sooo
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What you don’t think so?
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There won’t be that many partners to us..if that is the point..I would be extrovert
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1.5 Million !!!! where are they ?….i have never found any single one.
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Hahahaha, I hear you my friend!
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I am single as a open ended choice but Indians are hell bent on raising the topic of marriage at all times.
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I quite agree.
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Thank you for following me 😁
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